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Why We Write

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By: John O’Nolan

Asking a writer why he or she writes is like asking Peyton Manning why he throws a football or Wynton Marsalis why he blows the trumpet. We do it because we’ve found it to be the best way to express ourselves—and we’re good at it. In a way, writing is an obsessive-compulsive behavior. We write because we don’t have a choice.

Those of us attempting to put words on paper in a meaningful way are miserable when we’re not writing, or as I’ve been known to do, finding excuses not to write. Early in life I realized I didn’t have the athletic abilities of a Manning, or the musical chops of a Marsalis. Instead, I was able to string words together in such a way others would give me precious atta-boys. Okay, it wasn’t the same as being the star quarterback on my high school team, but as an impressionable adolescent I welcomed any kind of positive feedback I could get.

For example, I recall taking second place in an essay contest in the sixth grade. As a reward I received a $25 Savings Bond and took part in a special assembly where all the winning authors read their entries. I was terrified. I stood shaking before my 400 classmates and vowed never to enter a writing contest again.

Then they applauded and I was hooked.

In my seventh grade English class we ventured into creative writing and I tested my teacher’s patience with a series of silly sketches that brought howls to my classmates. Perhaps my obsessive-compulsive psychosis began the day Mrs. Martelli sent me to the principal’s office after I read my story about a thinly-disguised witch-like teacher named Mrs. Martini.

Some people think writing ability is nothing special. Bad boy coach Bobby Knight comes to mind. He once said, “All of us learn to write in the second grade, but most of us go on to greater things.” Of course, this was a reaction to one of his well-publicized feuds with journalists. Despite Knight’s contempt for writers, I’d place us on a higher pedestal. Since the publishing industry is a multi-billion dollar industry, many people obviously have a high regard for writers.

There are as many reasons why writers write as there are writers, but I still believe it comes down to the nagging voice in your head urging you to write. Bestselling author Steve Berry is a big believer in the motivational voice, and urges us to pay attention to it. He’s also said, “People tell me that my job (writing) must be fun. Fun? No, writing isn’t fun, it’s work. Hard work.”

But like every other form of work, the more you do it, the harder you work, the better you get. Berry had 85 rejections with five different manuscripts before finally selling The Amber Room. Steve has sold 19,000,000 copies in 51 countries so he’s obviously doing something right. Along with hard work, the other trait he learned was persistence.

I’ve also heard people ask when we can consider ourselves writers. Is it when we first sit down to write? Or is it when we publish our first article, short story, poem, or book? Maybe that’s a question we each have to answer for ourselves, but don’t make the mistake I once made. I’d just begun my talk at a retirement facility and told the group my career had been in broadcasting, but I always considered myself a writer. An elderly gentleman in the first row turned to his companion and in a stage whisper most of us could hear said, “The real question is does anyone else consider him a writer?”

Be that as it may, most writers want to see their finished work in print. Why is that? Probably because we’ve spent so much time working on it we want to share it with as wide an audience as possible. And there’s the dream that keeps us going. You know the one where you see your book on the New York Times Bestseller’s List. Or the dream where you’re being interviewed on The Today Show by Matt Lauer. My favorite dream is seeing my book made into a movie starring Nicole Kidman and she asks me, the author, to accompany her to the Hollywood premiere, and later to her beach house in Malibu, where … Sorry, I tend to get carried away when I dream.

Why is it, though, most people who write aren’t doing it as a hobby? It seems every time I turn around I meet someone who has written a book and is trying to get it published. Where are the Sunday writers out there? The people who, like Sunday painters, are doing it as a hobby?

In his wonderful book, Telling Lies for Fun and Profit, Lawrence Block addresses this very subject. He talks about the thousands, maybe millions of people content to dab paint onto canvases, and some of them very good painters indeed, with no real intention of ever selling their work. Or the people who snap photographs as a hobby. Or the craftsmen who knit and make quilts and throw pots. Do they expect to profit by their interests?

Probably not.

Most do it because they enjoy the process of creating a watercolor, capturing a family image on their smart phone or digital Nikon, or sewing colorful scraps of cloth together. Unlike those acts of creativity, writing, according to Block, implies an act of communication. “If a story is not to be read, why write it down in the first place? An unpublished piece of fiction is an incomplete act, like a play staged in an empty theater.”

And what are we to make of this phenomenon? It goes back to my first point about writing being an obsessive-compulsive behavior. Hobbyists can unwind after a tough day at the office by whittling or gardening or painting. These activities probably release endorphins and help these people relieve stress. They might even describe it as fun.

Can we say the same thing about writing? Remember Steve Berry’s contention that writing isn’t fun, it’s hard work. Most of us want to profit from our hard work.

Certainly, there are Sunday writers who enjoy crafting a poem or writing a family memoir without any intention of publication. There may even be some who write fiction as a hobby, but be careful. Be very careful. If you join a writer’s group and receive positive feedback you may be encouraged to enter a contest. If you happen to take second place who knows what might happen. The siren call of success will surely lead to those mesmerizing dreams and before you know it you’re hooked.

And then it’s no longer fun. It’s hard work. Better to stick with gardening or better yet, reading. Now there’s a hobby I call fun.

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When Vic DiGenti isn’t putting words in other people’s mouths using his non de plume Parker Francis, he can be found working for FWA. He’s FWA’s recently elected Executive Vice President, 2017 Conference Faculty Chair, and Northeast Florida Regional Director. Visit Vic’s website at www.parkerfrancis.com.
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  1. aliciaminor
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    I can relate and better yet, tell of my own experience. When I joined SCBWI, I found out that there were three writers in town who were members too and so out of excitement, I called the one closest to my house. I introduced myself as a writer on the phone and the first thing she told me was, “There is no money in this field unless you hit a bestseller like Rowling’s of the Harry Potter series. I was hurt. Is money the only reason why we write? Of course not, because writers are not made. We are born with a pen and paper in our mouths. We are writing the first time our hearts beat at conception and so on this premise, we write because this is what we are destined to do, this is what our hearts dictate us to do and not because of money. It’s a calling, a passion, a commitment. As writers, there are no excuses not finding the time to write. As a rule, we need to write each day or at times when that longing and inspiration hit us to put those words into print. We may or not get published but the joy it gives us is priceless. Never mind if it doesn’t get published or becomes a movie or a stage play because at the end of the day and before our life ends, we can share our writings with families, neighbors and friends and let them be the judge. Turn those writings into homemade books. Make book dummies with titles, texts, pages, and if you can illustrate, the better. We are not leaving our stories left unread, unturned because one day, a child or an adult will read it and say, “I like it.”

  2. aliciaminor
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    Ooopsie! We are born with a pen and paper in our hands instead of mouths. Sorry for the error. Inspiring blog, Mr. Vic Digenti. More power to you.

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