Rejections suck, no doubt about it. However, it’s what you do after getting rejected that can determine whether or not you will ever be a successful writer. So let me share my experiences. Remember, your reality will likely differ from mine. Everyone’s writing path is unique. But the takeaway message I’m trying to convey is “Don’t give up too soon.” Wasting Your Writing Years The first time I attempted to find an agent, I sent out about 90 queries. In … Read More »

We’ve just enjoyed the FWA Book Expo last month, and one of its most delightful aspects for me was the author interviews, in which I was privileged to take part. It was fascinating and affirming to hear other authors speak about their experiences and how they go about their writing! Thus I’d like to share a few reflections this month on the value of being part of the larger community of writers. I’ve spoken before about belonging to writers’ groups … Read More »

Are you comfortable when you write? Or do you have routine aches that distract you from writing? Six years ago, I began to examine more than just my writing abilities. I closely monitored my environment and the physical effects of my writing. Since then, these seven practices (or tools) have aided me in being a more capable (fit) writer. 1. Use a desktop computer more often than a laptop. Laptops are convenient, but they are not typically built for hours … Read More »

My last post (Making It in the Middle) was on trying to figure out what it means to be successful as a writer. Now, I want to address the “is my writing any good” question. Most writers worry about that. Even very successful ones — some of whom left instructions to destroy their unpublished work after their deaths like Franz Kafka, Virgil and Harlan Ellison. Thank goodness, other minds prevailed. Good/Bad vs Acceptance/Rejection Sometimes we are so in love with … Read More »

Something I hear a lot is, “Why don’t published authors want to help newer writers?” or someone will say, “I just need a quick look at my query, my opening chapter, my whole manuscript!” Or, “I don’t know why that author won’t refer me to his agent.” Well, there are a lot of reasons. For one thing, authors are busy. They have contracts with deadlines. There are a lot more unpublished writers than published ones. Published authors probably already have … Read More »

A writer’s mind rarely rests. If a writer isn’t in front of the computer, their brain is most likely composing, editing, or solving a plot problem. It’s more than enough for a mind to manage if there’s just one story floating around, but what happens if another one steps in and tugs at your sleeve? Referee or Mediate Perhaps the stories vying for their time need to learn how to take turns. Setting aside specific days for each story will … Read More »